We’re telling you to simply understand women. You are a man, and women like men turning into a woman would make you less attractive to (most) women.
We’re not suggesting you have to become a gender psychologist or feminize your whole worldview. The better you learn to see these things from women’s points of view, the less unattractive you will be to them and the less confused, resentful and frustrated you will be by how they respond to you. You need to understand how women evaluate your qualities and how they perceive the status, danger, opportunities and threats that you could present. We cannot emphasize this enough: m ating success requires cross-sex insight.
This is only the beginning of the harms she potentially faces at your hands. You can pretend you love her, get her pregnant and then abandon her. Socially, you can spread lies about her or damage her reputation (with men and women), sometimes just by being associated with her.
And their fears don’t stop at physical harm they are just as vulnerable to social and emotional harm, as well.
